Wednesday, January 2, 2019

2019 ~ A New Year to Live Fully

Hello Folks ~ Here it is the afternoon of the 2nd day of this new year. I pray that you are all doing well, that 2019 will be filled with blessings whatever comes your way.

Each day is a gift, let us choose wisely how we will spend each one. Let us live in thankfulness, let us find joy, may we learn and grow through our experiences. Let us be kind, giving, forgiving, and encouraging to others. We all go through different trials in our lives, none of us are exempt. Some have a lot more to deal with than others, but we can all survive and we can thrive in and through our circumstances. I’m not saying life will be a bed or roses or all sugar and spice, but there are positives in every day. Let’s look for them and thank God who is the giver of all good things.

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Again I want to thank those who blessed me with ‘gifts’ this past month. I am using some to pay bills, bought  some gardening tools, and some flowers. I will also be going out to eat with my ‘Grief Share’ family at the end of this 13 week session of meetings. For my health, I have ordered a pedometer. I have become too sedentary in the last couple of years, and that is NOT good for my health and well being.

I had researched pedometers a few months back, and put it out of my mind, then the brand I had thought about popped up in a sidebar somewhere, so I read up on it again. It had good reviews and the price wasn’t too bad. After ordering it, I found a website that had figured out pedometer steps for different activities. They had gardening on their list, and lawn mowing, yay for me. One hour of gardening = 7260 steps, and hour of lawn mowing = 9120 steps. I’ve read all over the internet that we should be taking 10,000 steps per day to be healthy and fit. Since losing my job 2 years ago, I’ve spent way too much time in front of my computer and not doing other things. I want that to change this year. I have plenty to do, and want to accomplish things while I still have the ability to do so. Here’s the one I ordered from Amazon.

Omron HJ325 Alvita Ultimate Pedometer, Blue

On New Year’s Eve morning I went outside to work in my front garden area as it is so overgrown. So, I pulled weeds, trimmed and then got ready to rake and my rake handle broke. This is like the 4th time and the handle is getting shorter and shorter. This has been my favorite rake for years and years. A couple of tines are missing and I looked at it this morning and more are rusting out.  So, New Year’s Day morning I headed over to Home Depot. I had looked up rakes on their website and with it being a holiday it was a quiet day to shop.

I found the rakes and looked at the one I thought about getting and then at another one made by the same company that was $10 cheaper all because of the handle. The more expensive rake had a fiberglass handle, the cheaper a hard wood handle. I opted for the cheaper one and will keep it under shelter. I used the rake this morning and really like it.

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I needed a garden pouch. The one I was using was one of those smaller cotton deals with two pockets. I wanted something that would hold more. I decided to go to the tool dept. At first all I saw were heavy duty tool pouches made of leather, then down lower, I saw this Husky pouch. I took it out of the pkg. to check it out and fell in love. Winking smile I like the clip that fastens it closed, real easy to release. I think this was $7.98. Very well made and should last me the rest of my gardening days. I needed new garden gloves also, and this three pack was $4.     

Old gloves, with holes in tips, that have seen better days.

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I needed more potting soil so bought two bags of a new-to-me brand. I’ll let you know what I think.

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Some flowers bought for myself to enjoy. I’ve not bought any in awhile.

Pink Angel Wing begonias

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A beautiful ground orchid. I have another like this and several purple ones. They do grow in soil.

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Pink hibiscus, huge flowers

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Now for some flowers already growing here at Plum Cottage.

Louis Philippe or Florida Cracker rose with a wild petunia flowering vine

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‘Carnation’ roses

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This is ‘hugs-n-kisses’ bought a couple of months after my dear husband left this planet. When I saw these blooms and then the name, the pot just jumped into my cart.

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I think this is a ‘knock-out’ rose, have two of them bought a few years back.

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Don’t know the name of this rose.

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Can’t remember the name of this flowering vine.

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Area I worked on this morning, before I started.

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After, still more to do but I did make forward progress.

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I found out about this great LED magnifying glass lamp through another blogger who paints miniatures and does fine needlework. Ordered it through Amazon and used an Amazon gift card, it came New Years Eve morning.  Let me tell you that this lamp is amazing. I look forward to getting back into doing bead embroidery. I love doing that and have missed creating with beads.

Brightech- LightView Flex LED Magnifier Clamp Lamp- Gooseneck Light for Desk, Table & Easel Use – Daylight Super Bright, Perfect for Reading, Hobbies, Task Crafts or Workbench- White

That’s it for now. Enjoy the rest of your first week of 2019. I look forward to working on my little ‘sanctuary’ creating a peaceful environmet.

FlowerLady

I will close this first post of this new year with the following. This came in my email through Grace Gems. My dear husband found this website years ago and thought it sounded like one I would like. I do and have been blessed over and over again by different writings from this website.

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A New Year’s Resolution

"My times are in Your hand!" Psalm 31:15

Firmly believing that my times are in God's hand,
I here submit myself and all my affairs for the ensuing year,
to the wise and gracious disposal of God's divine providence.

Whether God appoints for me . . . .
   health or sickness,
   peace or trouble,
   comforts or crosses,
   life or death--
  may His holy will be done!

In everything I have to do--my entire dependence is upon Jesus Christ for strength.
And whatever I do in word or deed,
I desire to do all in His name,
to make Him my Alpha and Omega.
I have all from Him--and I would use all for Him.

(Matthew Henry - 18 October 1662 – 22 June 1714)

Wednesday, December 26, 2018

Thank you from my heart

Dear Folks ~ Have I ever been surprised and blessed because of a ‘little birdie’ who flew around blogland saying I needed some cheering up this December. Oh my goodness, the kindness of others has brought on some ‘happy tears’, smiles and a heart filled with thanksgiving. Ladies I don’t know and some I do know, have most definitely cheered my heart. Sweet cards and notes of encouragement, gift cards, money and baked goods. I am humbled and blown away at the same time.

For some reason this 6th December since my dear husband went to be with Jesus has been rough. Partly, I think it has to do with I’m getting older, and having to deal with everything here at Plum Cottage by myself, that the two of us always handled as a team, a team that worked wonderfully well together. I have to admit that last evening, after a nice Christmas day of laughter and great food with friends, I laid in bed talking to Jesus. Admitting to him how I felt like ‘screaming’ (this is not how I am normally, but those are the feelings that came out last night), I was loudly screaming in my heart and mind because I am not as strong as I’d like to be and I miss my husband. I talked with Jesus about these true feelings and asked for strength and patience as I live each day that I am blessed with.  I am human and I do sometimes get ‘down’, and that’s when I cry out to Jesus to be my strength. I want to be of good courage and not afraid, to keep focused on Him, to do what I can with the physical strength and mental know how that I have.

I have so much to be thankful for, a little house that is paid for, my van is paid for, I’ve food to eat, a comfortable bed, clean water, electricity, my 4 feline girls, gardens full of flowers and weeds. Birds, bees and butterflies that grace my gardens with their presence. On my husband’s birthday I saw a hummingbird two different times sipping nectar from two different flower types. To me that was a little happy blessing. Also, I’m thankful that I’m still able to get out and physically do things. I did lose my job that I’d had for 17 years, (3 years after losing my husband, as my boss sold the business and moved across the state) and I’ve not found other work yet, part-time, to supplement my ss check, but, this is  all part of God’s plan for my life. He knows my needs and desires. He blesses me in many ways, and right now at this time, He has blessed me with kindness from others.

I am so looking forward to 2019. I look forward to clearing up the property here at Plum Cottage, to make this little place more of a sanctuary, to living even more simply that I already do and to keep trusting in Jesus to take care of me.

Life is an adventure. We can choose which way we want to live it, joyfully and peacefully or gloomily and not at peace. We learn and we grow through life’s experiences. As I am typing this, another little song came to mind. Here are the words:

They that wait upon the Lord,
Shall renew their strength,
They shall mount up with wings as eagles
They shall run and not be weary,
They shall walk and not faint.
Teach me Lord, teach me Lord, to wait.

Amen.

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Thank you all who have visited here since I started this blog in 2008. Your words of encouragement, your comments, prayers, all that you are and share, has been a blessing in my life. May we have many more years together.

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May we all be blessed and may we bless others in 2019.

FlowerLady

Monday, December 17, 2018

It’s Christmasy at Plum Cottage

Hello Friends ~ It is a beautiful Sunday morning here in s.e. FL. Going to have chilly weather again tonight, 50’s. Yesterday it lightly rained off and on all day into the evening hours. Gloomy, but this is a new day and we are blessed with sunshine, gentle breezes and a big blue sky.

Pinched nerve pain is no more. I am so thankful for that. I’ve had this before, and other times the pain was worse and it lasted longer.

Early Friday morning I received a text from a friend. She had gotten ‘free’ tickets to see ‘Hello Dolly’ and asked if I wanted to go with she and her husband. I said yes, not knowing what the story line was, only remembering a couple of lines to the song.  Even though the story was about a widow, I only teared up once and that was with the song about falling in love.  The performance was FANTASTIC! The singing, the dancing, costumes, orchestra, the comedy, all amazing. I laughed, clapped, sang along, and left with a smile on my face and joy in my heart. It was so good to get out with friends, a change of scenery, stepping outside of my comfort zone.

Yesterday morning I went to another session of Grief Share and was blessed by my time with others. Sharing, tears, laughter, a good time together. We have two more sessions, then we will all meet somewhere, to be determined, for lunch together. The next set of sessions will start up in January, maybe and I’m planning on going again, to be able to share the comfort and healing that I’ve been blessed by Jesus with these past 6 years.

I thank you all for your kind comments on my last post.

I have to say that I’m glad the 9th is past. That is the hardest part of December for me, even though for my dear husband it was the best day of his life. Thursday will be his 71st birthday and I’m planning on making a special meal to celebrate the day he was born.

Here is a hazelnut chocolate ball by Ferroro Rocher. I could hardly believe what I saw when I unwrapped it and am always thankful when hearts show up for me.

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I came across a cute little you-tube video called ‘The Wind in the Willows’ from 1983 that some of you might enjoy..

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It’s now Monday. Was 56 and felt like 52 this morning. The sun is shining in a big blue sky right now.

I will close with pics below and will be taking a break until after Christmas.

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Now for some Plum Cottage Christmas.

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When Jesus became a baby,

he lost nothing of his God-ness.

He was truly God and truly man,

in one person.

Even as he slept soundly as human,

he was holding the universe together as God.

(Taken from this article on Desiring God.)

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In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.

John 1:1

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And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us

John 1:14a

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God was manifest in the flesh

1 Timothy 3:16 b

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Merry Christmas to all.

May you feel the Love, Peace & Joy of God

surrounding you this holiday season.

FlowerLady

Tuesday, December 11, 2018

Atta-girl and never too old

Hello Folks ~ It is a beautiful sunshiny day here in s.e. FL. Big blue sky, breezy and 60 degrees. Early this morning it got down to 47 and the real feel 39. That’s cold for us. Inside it was 70. Yesterday it seemed very warm inside Plum Cottage, and was nice and cooler outside, BUT I purposely did not open windows for fresh air, knowing it was going to get cold. Didn’t need to let the warm air out.  I had a you tube video of Christmas music and a picture of a roaring fire with the sound of fire crackling, on the tv, and was nice and comfy in my little abode. So far, with these couple of cold fronts I’ve not had to use the radiant heat heater.

I've been dealing with a pinched nerve in my left hip area since I woke up yesterday morning. It's a little better today. I'm just taking it easy again today.

The weather was so wonderful earlier this morning, that I was overflowing with thankfulness and decided to sing a little song for you.  

I used my phone to make the video, but, didn't have it in landscape mode, and there is no way you can rotate it once you've uploaded the video to you tube. I googled that option for quite awhile, older info said you could, then after trying to do it and find this or that to fix the problem,  I found out that you-tube had done away with the program that did that. I then saw where I could download an app to my phone, 'google photos' that would rotate the video for me. I've not downloaded anything to my phone, others have done it for me. I got brave and did it and was thrilled when it worked, turning the video horizontally. I couldn't quite trim off the ending, was having too much trouble so left it as is. I could hear DH's atta-girl for me accomplishing this little thing. To me it's a sort of big thing. Then I uploaded it and it is right. YAY! But, my Open Live Writer program will not post videos for some reason. Maybe I need to see if there is an updated version. I am doing this post in Blogger and hope it gets posted. I am never too old to learn new things, I just need to be 'brave'.

In spite of all that I've been through in my life, especially since my dear husband went to be with Jesus 6 years ago, I have much to be thankful for. I have tried to find this song online but haven't had success so far. I went to a Christian boarding school when I was in the 10th grade and lived in a house of high school girls with our house parents and a college age monitor, we would sing this in our devotional time each evening. This song stuck in my head and heart and has been a blessing to me through the years. My voice isn't what it once was, but I sing anyway, with joy in my heart.

I am standing in my driveway at the rear of the property. The wind is blowing, and the chilly air was very refreshing. I just stood in place instead of moving the camera around.

I've sung this song twice now with my 'Grief Share' family. The first time we were talking about being thankful to God even through our losses and I told them I wanted to sing this song, even though I was very nervous. I sang with joy in my heart, tears streaming and a smile on my face. The next week I was asked to sing it again. After I sang it I told them next time they would all sing with me.  I highly recommend Grief Share for anyone who is suffering the loss of someone in their lives.


That's it for now. I just had to share this with you. Christmas can be so rough for many, many people for all kinds of reasons. Let's spread cheer, love, peace, forgiveness, & encouragement with others. Jesus loves us all, He wants us to love Him and love others.


Happy Christmas holidays ~ FlowerLady